What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
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33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
What does it mean to you to live a life that reflects biblical values?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
What was Easter day like for you as a child?
Please share Did you stop?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Is it because Trump is impulsive that he is never on time?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
29- How superstitious are you?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
The Ice Breaker Questions
Common blood pressure drug slows aging and boosts lifespan, even in older animals - Earth.com
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Does the Lil Wayne song ‘Lollipop’ refers to a Lollipop sweet or a metaphor?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
*** Questions About Me ***
Why is Donald Trump criticized by so many people?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
Why do older siblings always hate younger siblings?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
Would you read them together?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
If yes, what?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
If you win, what will you make them do?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
Nothing too Serious
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
*** Random Questions ***
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
Any that are a turn off?
Family Relation Age Play
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Any that are a turn off?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
What is your favorite position? Why?
39~ What are your love languages?
52~ What are your hobbies?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
Have you ever? Care to Share?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
How old are you? Male or Female?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?